Should I cut up my credit cards?

My brother and I were talking this week about the virtues vs. vices of credit cards. Banks are in the business of getting us to open new cards and use cards more. But are banks to blame for our poor spending habits? Are credit cards the enemy?

Some financial gurus advise cutting up your credit cards so you won’t be tempted to use them. Or freezing your cards in a block of ice and keeping them in your freezer. The theory behind the freezer strategy is that you’ll have time to reconsider the necessity of a purchase if you have to wait for the block of ice to thaw before you can use the card. Maybe these extreme measures are necessary if you have an extreme case.

Maybe these methods work to prevent some people from overspending. My viewpoint is that these are band-aid approaches. They will work temporarily. Hopefully you get used to not spending money unwisely. Without addressing the real underlying issues though, you risk backsliding. More than likely, you’ll go back to old habits when you hit a rough patch in life.

Spending is often a habit. To break a habit you need to figure out what sparks the negative action. You need to examine the trigger, the response and the reward. Maybe your spending habit is triggered by a hard week at the office. At the end of a hard week you go out and buy new shoes and a purse. And probably dinner out. I’m not judging…merely observing. The reward you receive by taking action(buying stuff) is a feeling of wealth. The new shoes and purse may give a feeling of being more attractive. These purchases are all fine if they were conscious decisions and goals you had. HOWEVER, if your goal was to build wealth but you headed to the mall out of habit at the end of the week then you need to shift.

Knowing your trigger is a hard week at work, go ahead and schedule a Friday night/Saturday routine. That is, rewire the actions that will take place when the trigger hits. You want the actions to give you the rewards of feeling wealthy and attractive. An alternative routine could be a financial update and a physical activity that you enjoy. The financial update (looking at your new balance in Quicken or Mint after your paycheck is deposited) will remind you that you are wealthier. Pick a physical activity you enjoy like taking a walk with a friend or working out at the gym. You’ll feel more attractive than eating a big meal at Texas Roadhouse after a long week.

Again, find your trigger, replace the unwanted action and still receive the reward. You can’t actually quit most habits. Only replace them. For more on habits, check out Charles Duhigg’s excellent book The Power Of Habit. He describes habit loops in much more detail and includes case studies of successful habit changes.

After kicking your bad spending habits you’ll be able to enjoy the positive benefits of credit cards with complete peace of mind. I use credit cards for every expense I can. Credit cards are very convenient. A lot of times I don’t even carry cash.

Convenience isn’t the only reason I prefer credit cards. Probably not even the primary reason. The big one for me is the points. I use a Discover card and a Mastercard that earn points for each purchase. One point for each dollar in purchases. At times they run different promotions. For example, this month every dollar in online purchases using the Discover card earns five points. Yay!! Amazon gets a lot of my dollars every month. I devour books. And now I get my vitamins, pens, protein powder, all sorts of things from Amazon. Anyway, the points work out to 1%– 5% discount that you can apply back to your card.

I know you’re thinking 1% isn’t worth messing with. Here’s how it works for me. We spend around $1,700 per month on the credit cards. We put utilities, insurance, everything we can on the cards. That works out to $17 at 1%. ($17 x 12 months = $204.) $204 refund from purchases we are going to make anyway. Maybe $204 doesn’t matter to you. If so, you’re probably spending more than $1,700 and would get more than $17 a month. =)

Another tactic with the credit card points is to purchase gift cards. A few years ago, LL Bean was one of the vendors that Discover offered gift cards for. The way it worked was that you could use $40 worth of points for a $50 gift card. That is 20% off. LL Bean had a kayak that I wanted. So I saved up points and bought enough gift cards with points to get the kayak. It was a great kayak. I used it so much that I wore a hole in the bottom. Every time I used it, I was reminded of how I got it essentially free. Discover, Amex, Citi and others have many vendors that participate in the discounted gift cards in exchange for points program.

The overarching key to credit cards (and life) is that I’ve learned to not spend more than I can pay for each month. Whether I pay by credit card or cash, I limit my spending.

Having mastered my spending habits, I’ve found that credit cards can be a tool to actually save money. I am able to be even more frugal thanks to credit card reward points. For me, credit cards are my friends, not the enemy. I challenge you to let them out of the freezer and take responsibility for your habits.

5 Tips for Becoming Debt-Free

Ben Franklin QuoteLast week I had a conversation with someone that included this question: “You and your wife are in your forties and are debt-free. My spouse and I are in our thirties and are not on course to be debt-free that soon. How did you do that?”

Maybe this is something you’d like to achieve. If so, I hope these simple tips help.

  1. Both spouses need to agree on a target.

This may not come naturally. Take some time individually to write up your ideal life/lifestyle. Get back together and see where you agree and where you differ. Compromise on the differences then set up goals.

If you can make this a project you both can work on together, it can be a big plus for your marriage. Often one spouse is a saver and one is a spender. This creates tension. Agreeing on priorities that you both see as important can lesson the tension as you both work toward a common goal.

  1. Learn to live on a lot less than you earn.

This may require some lifestyle changes. If you really want to be debt-free you’ll find these tweaks are not really sacrifices. Don’t eat out as much. Brown bag your lunches. Don’t pay for cable(at least not premium channels). Spend less time shopping. Take a walk outside instead.

This really is the key. Spend less than you earn. The more creative you get with saving, the faster you’ll be out of debt. Then if you want to get rich, keep up those frugal lifestyle adjustments. You’ll find you’re just as happy. This is really about consciously spending money and time on the things that bring you long-term happiness rather than the mindless consumerism most people practice.

  1. Aggressively attack the debt.

Now that you’re spending less than you earn, use the difference to attack the debts. Focus on one at a time (usually the one with the highest interest rate). Make it a game to see how fast you can pay it off. After the first one is paid off, you have even more money each month to pay on the next one. You’ll pick up speed with each one.

  1. Keep at it even when you get pushed off course.

It can be discouraging when an unexpected expense occurs–like a car breaking down or an appliance dies. But don’t let that surprise stop you. It’s only a slight delay, maybe a month or two of extra expense instead of extra debt payments.

You’ve probably heard that commercial airplanes do not go in a straight course from point A to point B. They are not able to keep a simple arc for even a short flight. Airflows push them one way or the other. They have to go around or over storms. They need to avoid flight paths of other planes. Pilots must keep their destination in front of them and continually make little adjustments to bring the plane back on course.

Life is just like that. If you keep your goal in front of you, and make continual little adjustments(and sometimes big ones), eventually you’ll pilot your finances to your destination.

Which brings me to the last tip…

  1. Have another goal.

My experience with paying off debt was bitter-sweet. While I was elated that we did it, and proud of our hard work and persistence, I also went through a bit of a funk after sending the last payment. Working so hard for so long at a big project like that becomes part of your identity. Without that activity to focus on each month, somehow part of me was missing. When the monster is finally dead, it’s important to celebrate. Then quickly move on to the next quest.

The good news is that ANYONE can do this. The person I was speaking with last week has a higher household income than I’ve ever had. I’m sure they have nowhere near as much debt as we had at various points. If they choose to make financial freedom a goal and stay focused on that goal, they WILL arrive quickly.

Are Coupons Worth the Trouble?

We subscribe to our local Sunday newspaper for one reason. The coupons.

Some people say that taking the time to match up manufacturer coupons with local coupons and sales saves too little money to be worth while. For some that may be true. For example, maybe you and your spouse both work 60 hours a week at your six-figure jobs, then come home to take care of your three kids each night and visit your aging parents on the weekends. In that case the dollars saved probably aren’t worth your valuable time.

I’m going to share another scenario though. This is our experience with coupons:

For us, the practice of couponing is one of the activities that has allowed Becky to be a full-time mom and homemaker for our two kids and me for the past 10 years.

Each week, Becky cuts coupons from the Sunday paper and magazines or other places she finds coupons. Then she matches them up with circulars from local grocery stores. Those circulars often have store coupons and other sales. By stacking manufacturer coupons onto store coupons, she sometimes gets things for free or very nearly free. Only buying things we actually use.

This coupon clipping and matching process takes an hour or so a week. It actually saves time in the store when she goes in knowing exactly what items she is purchasing.

Becky saves $50 – $100 per week for our family of four by taking the effort to match up coupons. Not bad for an hour of work. Especially since that hour of work was at home while sitting on the couch.

This practice over the years has contributed to arriving at our forties completely debt-free.

Ben Franklin (Poor Richard) said, “The Art of getting Riches consists very much in THRIFT.” He went on to say that not all of us are equally gifted at making big bucks, but ALL of us can practice THRIFT.

In addition to coupons, we practice frugality by shopping at:

  • local produce stands
  • bent ‘n’ dents
  • mennonite shops for meats, cheese and bread
  • coupons at mall stores and office supply stores
  • thrift shops
  • yard sales

Do you use coupons? Why or why not?

 

 

Frugal Friday – The Ultimate Discount

CVSThis week’s example goes beyond frugal. Imagine being paid to take merchandise out of the store. That’s what I watched happen this week. My wife, Becky–as I’ve mentioned before–is an amazing bargain shopper.

Wednesday I walked into a local pharmacy with her. She pulled out her coupons and went straight to the items that were on sale at the store and that she had coupons for.

A $7.99 bottle of Listerine mouthwash.

A $9.99 battery-powered Oral B toothbrush.

Two minutes later we were at the checkout counter with her items and coupons. After store discounts and manufacturers coupons were deducted the total came to $2.07. She handed the cashier two one-dollar bills, a nickel and two pennies… And he handed her back the receipt with three store bucks good on any future purchase from that store.

So the grand total spent for the mouthwash and battery-powered toothbrush… -$.93

Talk about frugal! Free stuff AND enough money for something else free next trip.

Do you have a tip for us? Please share in the comments below.

Saving up for…

Save infographicMany years ago I worked as a tax preparer in Easley, SC. In the course of interviewing clients about their income and expenses, I would often learn that they had no bank accounts. No checking. No savings. If it were only one or two people I might be surprised. Nope. I heard the same thing from dozens each month I worked there. Close to one out of every three people that came in didn’t have ANY bank accounts!

These were people of all ages. Didn’t they know the advantages of banks? This was back when bank accounts paid good interest rates.

These days banks pay very low interest rates. But there are a couple other reasons to use them:

Safety—most accounts are protected up to $250,000. FDIC insured means the government will make sure you get your money back even if the bank goes out of business. That makes them a safer place to keep your money than your mattress if your house burns down.

Protection—if your money is accumulating in a jar on the dresser, it can be tempting to grab a twenty on your way out the door to the mall. Protect your money from YOU!

Now hopefully you have a bank for your checking and savings accounts.  But are you ACTIVELY using them?

I’m sure you can think of many things to store money for, here are a few to get you started:

  • Emergency fund—you’ve started one, right? CLICK HERE for a recent post on Emergency Funds.
  • Saving for a car—begin setting aside money each month for your next car. Don’t borrow money for a car.
  • Vacation fund—ditto for your next vacation. It’s important to make memories with your friends and family. But if you don’t have money saved to go to Disney find other alternatives. There are a ton of cool things to do and explore in your local area without spending a bunch of money. The big trips are special. Save up and do them right.

How do you get started?

Find $10 a month to get started. One less pizza night a month. Once you get in the habit of saving, you’ll be surprised at the ways you can save in your daily, weekly, monthly lifestyle. Read the Frugal Friday posts for more ideas.  😉

I’ve heard it said that what you focus on, increases. As you begin to focus on adding money to your savings account, you’ll be aware of more ways to add money to your savings account. Make it a game to add one more dollar than you added the previous month.

Don’t be like those lovely people I worked with in the South who just never got around to saving money for a rainy day. What are you saving for?

Frugal Friday – Winter Coat

pea coat

Becky’s latest rummage sale find… $1 Anne Klein wool pea coat. It’s a classic. In good shape, just missing a couple buttons. Bec spiced it up with eight new fun buttons for $6.

Now she’s ready for cold weather in a $200 coat that she spent $7 on.

Proof that you can update your wardrobe and look great without pulling out the credit card.

Where do you find the best deals on clothes?

5 Reasons I Don’t Miss Satellite TV

TVThis summer we cancelled our DirecTV subscription. My wife and I have been married 20 years and this is the first time we’re without cable or satellite TV. Initially the kids were sad about missing out on a couple shows they used to watch on Disney and Disney Jr. They got over it quickly and now we don’t miss it. In fact, I’m feeling great about the decision.

Here are a handful of the reasons I don’t miss it:

  1. I’m suddenly saving $106.81 each month. That’s $1,281.72 in a year. That adds up to a couple weeks of freedom each year!
  2. I’m sitting here blogging instead watching a show right now. Not sure where this will lead, but I’m sure it’s going to be a more productive result than watching another episode of Mike & Molly. I have a ton of stuff I’d like to do. I don’t need to watch so much TV.
  3. We still have access to plenty of video that we want to see. Netflix streaming is cheap and offers thousands of options. We also have Apple TV that lets us wirelessly connect our devices. That means we can watch anything we can access on the internet…yahoo video, youtube, network show replays, etc.
  4. I enjoy other forms of entertainment that seem to be more educational. I’m subscribed to several podcasts that are fantastic. I have more time for books and audiobooks. I also subscribe to several youtube channels that are very positive and educational. More time for The Greatest Investment in the World.
  5. I think we’re showing our kids an alternative to mindless tv watching as a family habit. We still enjoy a movie together now and then…but it’s an intentional choice rather than a daily habit.

Speaking of daily habit–I recently saw a statistic that Americans watch something like four hours of television per day. I know that once I sit down it’s easy to turn my mind off and be passively entertained.

My wife compares watching tv to eating potato chips. You sit down to enjoy one or two and the next thing you know the bag is empty! Or you’ve watched the whole season in one sitting—pick your poison.

What do you think? Is television a guilty pleasure or a legitimate learning source for you?

Frugal Friday-Bread Sale

bread sale

Becky hits the $.50 bread sale once a month. It’s day-old bread, but we freeze it and use it all month. The eight packages in this picture cost less than one loaf in the grocery store.

This is just one way to save on your grocery bill. But it adds up fast if you buy the good stuff…like multi-grain bread.

What kind of food sales do you have in your area?